Baby Weight?

Over the past few months I have noticed my body starting to...how do I put it...change. Ive seen my hips grow and don't even get me started on my behind. I decided I needed to go to the dr. right away because, although I had taken several pregnancy tests (why dont they sell those things in bulk at costco?) which were negative (thank goodness since that would halt the adoption process), I thought I must either be pregnant with not one baby but quadruplets or I must have some serious thyroid condition. The dr. almost laughed out loud in my face when I explained what was going on, looked at me and said, "You're almost 30, you can't always weigh what you did when you were 20. It's nature taking it's course." Excuse me, why aren't you concerned and rushing me to get every test imagineable? I got home and consulted with my sister Kristin and she unfortunately agreed with the dr. I swallowed my pride and realized my bikini days are over and thought I guess it is just nature taking its course until I had an Oprah "A-Ha" moment-this is purely baby weight....I am "expecting" my second child...adoptive mothers are allowed baby weight right?!?!?! Im sure as soon as we bring our baby home the weight will just slip right off and I will jump into my bikini from my honeymoon:)